This is my specialty. Tinder is not a hook up site- at least not in Australia. In the 60+ age group, It is mostly men looking for a wife or a long term partner. I just want a boyfriend! I've been on every dating site out there in the last 3 years, and I have found no difference in the ones which cost you heaps, and the free ones. I started internet dating in 2001, met my partner for the next 10 years almost immediately, When that relationship ended, I went online again and once again met my new partner for the next 4 years straight away. I'm edging up towards 100 dates in 3 years, but still don't have a boyfriend. I've really liked several men I've met, but they haven't liked me as much, and vice versa. I am learning a lot about myself and I'm really awesome.