OMG. Klara. I don't know what to say to you. Move far away and have nothing to do with him would be my advice. I moved 555km away from my ex because he became violent. He drove more than 3 times over the limit and lost his licence for 6 months and had a $1500 fine since it was his first offence. It took me almost a year to leave his sorry arse and start a new life for myself and my two youngest children.