Karen you stepped up to the mark and shared a part of your life that's hard for anyone to share. My heart goes out to you. My eldest son has been diagnosed with bipolar. He also has some sort of Asperger's and OCD. His highs and lows are controlled my medication but every so often they need to get it back in balance. He's never had a job so has been on a disability pension all of his life. It's really quite sad as he has an extremely high IQ. Too smart for his own good.