I made friends with some Mormons many years ago. They were lovely girls and told me all about Joseph Smith and then we chatted about life in the 70s. About 10 years later I made friends with a couple of JW girls. Every week they'd come and we'd have a coffee and chat. After a few months, one of them opened up to me that her husband was controlling and abusive. I probably asked as she has bruises on her neck that weren't love bites. My advice to her was get out and don't look back. I give that same advice to every woman who's a punching bag for her husband. I have zero tolerance. Left two of those marriages so I know what I'm talking about. Ended up poor, but better to be poor than dead.