I have two daughters who aren’t speaking. The one who instigated it is ready to talk but the other one isn’t. I’m part of the problem which I realised when I was on holidays with my elder daughter. I report things to the younger one that the elder one has told me. I didn’t even realise I was doing this. This just adds to my second son not talking to his sister and not having anything to do with his nephew. They were all together at my mum’s funeral but there were enough cousins etc that they didn’t have to speak. It hurts me as the mum and I wonder if they’ll start to talk at my funeral.